Image Credit: Chris Ragazzo/WE tvI don’t know wedding planner David Tutera personally, but after many a nights spent watching My Fair Wedding on WE tv, I certainly feel like I do. Our non-relationship started in 2008 when I watched my first episode of Fair Wedding . On the show, David (we’re on a first-name basis) takes a bride’s doomed wedding and turns it into her dream affair using the utmost care and thoughtfulness. But what drew me most to David as a reality personality was not the lavish parties he throws or even his amazing eye for style. It was that in the course of a few weeks, he builds his bride’s confidence, teaches her about self-worth (“Dream big,” he often says), and shows each one of them genuine-looking compassion. And many of the women on the show truly need those lessons and gestures. It’d be easy for Tutera to swoop in and create a giant event dripping in glamor, but he spends time with these girls, who he calls “my brides.” Often, at the end the show, they’ll give...